17.12.12

the art of choosing our battles

i know this is a little out of date but i just wanted to share my thoughts on the recent fight of pacquiao. i wrote this monday night after that horrifying sunday but before publishing it in my blog, i have to deliver this first in one of our toastmaster's sesh.


The Art of Choosing Our Battles

Jon Saraceno in his headline for the USA Today wrote: “Covered in a mask of blood, the 39 year old fighter blasted Pacquiao with a huge right hand with one second remaining in the sixth round to score a decisive knockout, the first time he defeated his Filipino adversary in four attempts.”  Last Sunday, Dec 9, Marquez put a definitive conclusion to a rivalry that spanned for a total of 42 rounds in over 7 years. A jaw-dropping, unbelievable and surprisingly entertaining match for boxing and non-boxing fans alike.

Good evening toastmasters and guests.

I was not a huge boxing fan. I prefer basketball and football because these are the 2 sports I can play. But when Manny Pacquiao became a national icon, I started to consider watching his fight and eventually got interested in other boxers and the sport itself. But let’s face it, here in the Philippines majority of the people don’t really care about other boxers or other boxing fights for that matter. The only fight that we care about so much so as posting it in our facebook status or hashtagging it in our twitter timeline is that of the “Pambansang  Kamao” or Pacquiao’s. After all, he was and he is phenomenal.

To those of you who are very much into social networking, you may have read, commented and even liked statuses that talked about Pacquiao’s fall over Marquez. There was the issue of him losing because he changed religion and did not make the sign of the cross. There was that status about the RH bill connected of his defeat, which I found very funny by the way. There were also true blue fans of Pacman who voiced their admiration and approval of him as one of the famers for boxing even after the fall. Interestingly, in my own facebook timeline and twitter majority of the posts were expressing their desire for Pacman to retire and just give up those boxing gloves. They question why did he even bother fighting against Marquez when he already got him 2 times with the previous fights? Fair notion, isn’t it?. But the real question is, can he really just retire immediately as much as he wants to? As much as his family wants to? Or as much as his fans want to? And can he really choose his fights or who to fight?

We need to make one thing clear. First, we have to know that 95% of the time, boxers cannot choose who they want to contend. Before they match up with the famous, they got to be famous themselves and how do they do that? Their promoter will do everything in their power to tie up with media, get them famous by spending thousands of pesos or dollars for that matter and spend a lot of time and effort to get the boxer in the A-list.

So, case and point #1: Before Pacquiao became the icon that he is, thousands of money was spent to build him. Case and point #2: He may have already doubled or tripled the money that was spent to build him but he can only stop when his promoting company sees it as appropriate for him and his career and for their pockets too. To simply put it, Pacquiao no matter how beat-up and humiliated he already is cannot choose to end all this boxing frenzy as easy as saying, “I quit”.

But you know what battle or what fight he can choose? The battle of humility, the fight to maintain sportsmanship by honestly declaring his mistake: “I got careless, I got hit by a punch I didn’t see”

Unlike Pacquiao, we as human beings in our struggle to survive have the option to choose which battles to fight. It may be choosing to do right in a workplace, which consents to an immoral act. It may be simply keeping silent at a pissed off partner and waiting for the anger to cool down. The moment we keep our rationales above our emotions, our opponent may think that they are dominant and we lay inferior over their strong outbursts. But truth of the matter is, choosing wisely which battles to win and fight is already winning in itself. So fellow toastmasters, choose your battles wisely today.

Good evening!

and to top that, i will share some of the photos i took at the waterfront hotel and casino where we watched the fight (:
the not-so-newly renovated lobby
heartoi's
no one cannot have too much christmas tree photos :p
heartoi's
the bar at the lobby
heartoi's
grand staircase going to the function rooms 
heartoi's
another picture of the bar


heartoi's

the girl in the mirror :p
hello fat me!



too bad we are not allowed to take photos inside but that's where the fight was shown in several huge screens 
boxing fan, jon (the guy in violet)! 
boxing fan, jp (the guy in black) funny how i took photos of my boxing buddies  showing their
backs only! lol
heartoi's
happy holidays says the snowman!

heartoi's
i just have to take a photo of myself in that grand
staircase :p
✘O✘O,
♡jas





5.12.12

what's in my bag?

hello wednesday!

after 2 days full shift at starbucks, i'm finally off! i'm happy cos i can now immerse myself in the cyber world. i'm not yet (take note of yet :p) an internet addict but i'm part of the general population who frequents social networking sites, blogs, and the likes. most celebrity bloggers have already their version of what's in their bag so might as well have mine (: 

no, i'm not trying to be a celebrity here, okay? but one time, after about an hour of walking around the mall with jp i complained of pain in my right shoulder. jp then offered to (hand) carry my bag since it was causing the pain obviously. he suddenly blurted, "my god, this is so heavy lovelove! what the heck are you carrying?" haha after that, i realize that i need to smartly choose what stuff to bring moving forward to make sure that carrying my bag wouldn't be so much of a hassle.

these are my essentials (not yours, so don't judge :p)

that's my rainbow bag today!
my onto headset. i don't have one of those pricey hard case so i just put it in a ziplock!
brilliant huh?  

this white coach cellphone pouch is from tita ella (jp's mom) yeah, i always always
 bring  phone chargers!

make-up pouch: inside is ciracle bb cream, yves rocher moisturizer, compact face
powder, eyeliner, brush, chapstick, blush on, mascara, and lash curler
(some stuff i said is not seen hehe)

wallet, keys, and the green apron book of starbucks which contain coffee recipes
 i need to study

gucci and calvin klein samplers from jp's mom! they smell soooo good
and very handy too!

this is where i put 'em together with my hair comb and ties and alcohol (:


there goes my bag! yesterday, jp slipped in some m&m's and snickers for my baon daw (: yeah, he is sweet like that!

that's me today! i'm in a hurry cos jp has been waiting for 10 mins already when i took this ((:
it took me a while to really think the stuff to carry and the stuff to leave behind. for now though, i'm happy to say that my bag is way way lighter than it used to! what about you? what's in your bag?


✘O✘O,
♡jas